It’s my second article on Loneliness’, let’s move ahead. We have discussed about attachment styles in previous article. We also going to learn about particular attachment styles and covers Secure Attachment Style in this post. Let’s discuss about characteristics of secure attachment:
Let’s try to understand with the help of a example. Suppose you have one best friend from your childhood days and you both are sharing every single detail about what happen in your lives. You feel secure and comfortable in your company. Suppose your friend fell in love with anyone and he/she is sharing every single detail or he/she have some issues with parents or he/she needs any help anytime he/she calls you and you both are ready to help each other. It’s called secure attachment style. You understand each other better than you understand other persons. However it’s just one characteristic that I have simplified. Let’s discuss about other characteristics too.
- You terminate toxic relationships when its needed.
- You are refraining from overreacting when you are angry.
- You have balanced childhood relationships – Both Painful and Happy moments.
Question for You:
Which of the following is NOT an example of an attachment style?
- Attachment anxiety
- Attachment avoidant
In next article we will talk about attachment anxiety. Please remember its types of loneliness attachment style. If content is working for you then you somewhere is lonely. Bye See You Don’t forgot to fill comment section about any questions. By the end of this chapter we should be able understand our personal attachment style.